Around the New Year, everyone is talking about starting over, taking hold of their lives, setting new goals and getting "back on track." There is actually something beautiful about this. We all know that we're not quite right, and we long to start over. There is a common grace to the calendar that allows us to do that, and for that reason I actually enjoy this time of year very much. However, I would encourage everyone to stop it with the abstract, amnesia-prone, annual resol